Do you think there’s something wrong with you that makes it impossible to meet a good man and that you keep attracting wounded men because YOU are wounded?
Do you feel like you keep MESSING things up with men and that they will always leave you…and then you become despondent when they actually do?
Then I want to introduce you to a whole new way of relating to men that’s going to turn things around so quickly and dramatically for you, you’ll wonder how you ever dated without it:
We women can be exceptionally hard on ourselves and be our own worst critic, especially when it comes to love.
But did you know that this comes from telling ourselves a story about our ability to love and our worthiness for love that is simply not true?
That’s right. A lot of the pain you feel about your love life right now is based on an outright LIE. You’re in pain because you’ve told yourself a story like, I’ll never find Mr. Right, because there is SO MUCH wrong about me. Or, I just need to accept that a man won’t treat me well, because I don’t deserve it.
Of course you’re not literally saying these stories, but they’re THERE in your subconscious, and you’ve become so used to it that you don’t even notice it’s getting in the way of your life let alone having the relationship you want.
That’s because when you get emotionally involved with someone, you become vulnerable and start exposing yourself at a deeper level.
At the same time, the expectations you place on the man you’re with means that when he lets you down or doesn’t come through for you in the right way, this is likely to TRIGGER the re-telling of that dreaded story in your brain.
That’s why dating is a PERFECT opportunity for you to challenge this negative story and create a new one of happy ever after…IF you know how to do it in a way that HEALS you WHILE leading you to your Mr. Right.