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Is He Really “Mr.Right”? by Elisabeth Dabbelt

He may look good, he may dress smart. But sometimes ‘Mr Right’ could turn into ‘Mr-Right-Only-For-Now’. Find out when that could happen.

He “forgets” to bring money on your first date.

He thinks you’ll be impressed when he tells you his ex-girlfriends were hot.

He’d had more jobs in the last few years than you have pair of shoes.

His idea of celebrating your birthday doesn’t involve you.

His mom calls to help patch things up and when you’re in a fight with him.

His idea of gourmet cooking is thawing a frozen pizza.

He picks you up for an 8 pm date… at 1 am.

You’re constantly making excuses for why he “really is” Mr Right when he’s really acting like a jerk.

Struggling to meet someone new? Following these simple yet insightful dating rules might be just be exactly what you need.

Love Yourself First

Have you ever noticed that happy people get more attention? And if you are happy with yourself, it shows. So in order to attract more people into your life for dating purposes, focus on the things that make you happy. Try writing a large piece of paper full of ideas that you can use in a pinch, such as taking a hot bath, going for a bike ride or filling your home with plants. Then, pick three items from this list every day with conscious effort, knowing that the time you take tending to increasing your own personal joy will increase the pull others feel to learn more about who you are.

Cut Ties To Your Ex

Although this dating rule may be contentious for some readers, it is still an important step in the dating process. Just like a spring cleaning clears your space of clutter and cobwebs, removing an ex still present in your life after a breakup can free you to meet someone new. Of course there are circumstances where this may not be possible – such as if you have children together or work in the same office. But whenever possible, you need to remove your ex from your personal life, even if it is only temporary.


There are a couple of significant mistakes that a lot of newly-single people make after a break up that prolong their pain and suffering. Follow these break up rules to assist you to find peace with the end of your relationship and avoid what not to do after a break up.After a Break Up Dont Remain “Just Friends

Accepting that your relationship is over is the very first step after a break up, and without this realization you’ll be hard pressed to move on. Now is the time for renewal, not hopes for reconciliation

Get to know yourself as a single person. Toe your lines of independence and find out what makes you happy again. Staying friends with your ex will only prolong the pain. Think of any interaction with your ex like an addiction – every single time you succumb, it’ll be that much harder to refuse later.

Move on. Let Elite Introductions help you find “Mr. Right”.